Order confirmation & contact.asp Email

Well, it's a custom code solution that I would propose, but you just go find the common mail-handler script that physically sends the mail and override the behaviour.

This code is in the upper section of contact.asp:
MsgBody=MsgBody & dictLanguage.Item(Session("language")&"_Contact_5") & vbcrlf & vbcrlf
MsgBody=MsgBody & Session("pcSFMsgBody")
MsgBody=replace(MsgBody,"''","'")
  
call sendmail (CustName,CustEmail,scFrmEmail,MsgTitle,MsgBody)

There is logic that retrieves the value of "scFrmEmail" which occurs in the scripting above that block of code.

There are more elegant solutions (like adding another address field to the admin page and database), but if you were to place the following statement directly above the sendmail command, it's likely to get the job done.  I've not actually tested this so there may be a hiccup that needs to be dealt with, but that is where I'd consider starting if faced with the requirement.

scFrmEmail = "someotheraddress@yourdomain.com"

Well, it looks like I was referring to an altered contact.asp script, but to accomplish what you want you cannot be editing the sendmail script.  You are trying to alter the behavior of the contact.asp page and that's were you need to make this edit.

MsgBody=MsgBody & dictLanguage.Item(Session("language")&"_Contact_5") & vbcrlf & vbcrlf
MsgBody=MsgBody & Session("pcSFMsgBody")
MsgBody=replace(MsgBody,"''","'")
<--------------put that new line here!  
call sendmail (CustName,CustEmail,scFrmEmail,MsgTitle,MsgBody)